Dr. Avinash Jhangiani
2 min readJun 16, 2023

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What if you could have a chat with your inner child?

When I was about 8 years old, I experienced an incident that stuck with me - a big fat family trip to Srinagar, when my hotel burnt down. Luckily we weren't it it. But I never got a chance to express my feelings with anyone. Until now. I wrote up the ~500-word story and fed into #chatGPT

Here's the conversation with Avi - my younger self.

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Present self: Hey there! I heard you had quite an eventful trip to Jammu & Kashmir. It sounds like you had a mix of fun and shocking memories. How are you feeling about the whole experience?

Avi: Hi! Yeah, it was definitely an eventful trip, to say the least. Most of it was really enjoyable, but the incident at the hotel was quite shocking. It's strange how things can change so suddenly. One moment we were happy to return to our base, and the next, we were faced with a burnt-down hotel and the loss of our belongings.

Present self: That must have been really disheartening and unexpected. It's hard to anticipate such incidents while on a vacation. How did you and your family cope with the situation?

Avi: It was definitely disheartening. My family was understandably upset, especially my dad and my Massi. They had lost their belongings and even some cash that my dad had left in the locker. Seeing the expression of despair on my mama's face was tough. But amidst it all, I couldn't help but find a sense of irony in the situation. I mean, who expects their hotel to burn down during a vacation, right?

Present self: Absolutely, it's ironic how life can throw unexpected challenges our way. It's interesting how you managed to find a somewhat positive perspective on the situation. Did that perspective help you in dealing with the loss and shock?

Avi: Yes, it did. Despite the loss and shock, I couldn't help but appreciate the experience itself. It was a unique situation that made me realize the importance of resilience and the ability to adapt to unexpected circumstances. I believe that experiences, whether positive or negative, shape us as individuals. So, instead of regretting the trip, I chose to see it as an opportunity for personal growth.

Present self: That's a great mindset to have! It's true that both positive and negative experiences contribute to our personal growth and resilience. How do you think this particular experience has influenced you moving forward?

Avi: This experience has taught me to appreciate what I have and to be prepared for unexpected challenges. It has also strengthened my belief in finding the silver lining in any situation. Sometimes, even in the face of loss, there can be valuable lessons and moments of growth. Overall, it has made me more resilient and adaptable, ready to face whatever comes my way.

Present self: That's a wonderful takeaway from such a challenging experience. It's admirable how you've turned it into a valuable life lesson.

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Dr. Avinash Jhangiani

Curator of India’s Book of Dreams, leadership coach, play, design & culture transformation expert, psychology (neuro & para) enthusiast, child rights activi